Do you like a boy and he is just blind to it, well these steps will help you to get him to love you! Trust me all these steps will help, I did them and now guess what Im going out with him! So it will work.
Getting to know him.If the boy you like is just someone in your class or form and you dont know anything about him, the best thing to do is get to know him. Try and find out as much as you can! If the boy you like is a friend then great but still, you could try and find more stuff about him.
Talking and becoming friends.Ok I know talking to him is not one of the easiest things to do even if your his friend.But you still need to do it. If your in his form/homeroom and you sit next to him or on his table then just start by saying "Hi". If its sunny you can talk about that or rain. Or if you know what bands he like ask him to recommend some to you. When you know you can talk to him try to become his friend. Like i said if your already His friend then great!
Friends Zone D:nThe friends zone is not a good place to be for to long, cuz if your in there for to long you could get stuck there.
MSN.If you dont already have his msn, then get it! A great way to flirt on msn is by playing 20 questions :D . Ask him things like who do you think I like, with a winking face ;D or ask him who he thinks is cute.
Flirting. Ok the most important thing about flirting is to not over do it. DO NOT act like a T**t all of a sudden. Think about it and get a weapon of flirt it could be playing with your hair when you talk to him,it could be when ever you walk past him in school you could wink, or nudge him in a cute way.When flirting with a guy, try and make subtle physical contact, such as stepping on his feet (nicely, most guys are bigger than girls anyway), poking him, and squeezing his arm. 75% of the time guys are too shy to physically flirt because they don't know how you feel about it, so make the move first.
Make up, Hair. Look if you dont wear make up in school do not come in one day with your face full of make up, it will make him think your trying to hard or that maybe your trying to impress someone else. If your school like mine does not let you wear make, then dont over do it. Like i said if you dont wear make you could just try some shine lip gloss, or even some shine lip blam. You can also try some mascara.The hair is very important, again if like my school you cant have coloured hair and high lights and it cant be in too fashionable style, then having it in a uber cute bun is great also having it in a uber cute messy bun is fab, you can curl and straighten your hair
Getting his Number.Ok im not gonna lie to you this one for some ppl can be hard and may take some time, but remember its all worth it. Ok there are many ways to get his number- If you know he is not so good in a lesson, give him your number and tell him to text or call you if he need help, If you know he wants to join a club ask him for it and say i will text ya with the details. Or ask him if he wants to hang out or go the the movies and ask for his number. ;)
Texting him. This one is a biggy, dont text him first more than 3 times a week or you could risk looking desperate. Also once in a blue moon when your texting him and he texts back dont text back for a few hours to a day then text him back saying soz and give a flirty or cute reason lol.
Body Hygiene.Ok this is a really big one. You cant be going to school with B.O. Every day I have to wash my arm pits even though I never get B.O I still wash them everyday and that is something you should start to do, cuz what if the boy you like wants a hugg you cant hugg him with smelly pits. Always put on deoderant after you wash your pits lol, if you put deoderant on smelly arms it will just smell worse! But you dont have to wash every day. You can wash every other day. Cuz if you wash everyday you are washing out all of your natural oils and your skin will get dry. So just remember to keep clean.
Girls with braces!If you have braces like me you should always have a bottle of water with you. Because food can get stuck in them, so use the water to wash it out.
Do not make yourself look too socially active because he might start to feel he can't keep up with you. If he feels he can't keep up with you, he might get too nervous and think that you're out of his league. If you are very socially active, invite him to come along one day with you and some of your friends. This will give him a chance to be around you outside of school and in your natural state.
Boys are easily influenced by their friends, so if you're friends with his friends, you can start hanging out with them. Make sure your hanging out with his friends when he is with them. But if you dont like his friends or dont know them, then try to get to know them
When you're together with him and his friends, have a conversation with one of his pals. When the friend is talking a lot, make eye contact with your crush. This will make you seem interested, but hard to get.
Think of a way to approach him. Timing is everything. Mention how his shoe laces are untied, ask what band is playing, or even comment on the weather (that may sound boring, but it's a good conversation starter that is commonly used, and most people don't mind talking about the weather). Be confident and avoid stuttering and spitting out random words. Just talk to him like one of your friends. Ask him how his weekend was.
Beware of other girls moving in on your boy. If you know the girl, chat her up nicely and get her interests. Learning more about her can help you find out how close she is to this guy.
Find out his personality! This helps you get closer to him.
Listen to him when he is talking to you. Watch him as he talks, smile and comment at the right parts. Don't fidget and glance off at random places while he talks to you, or stare off at a wall. He'll think you aren't listening and not interested in what he has to say.When you aren't talking to him, talk animatedly to your friends. Be interested in what they have to say and use your hands when talking. It makes you look caring and fun to be with, and he'll want to join in on the conversation.
Be bubbly and happy when you talk, not constantly moaning and groaning about things. No one wants to be around a downer, or someone who is constantly grouchy. Even if you are not in too happy of a mood, try to make it seem like any other day and try not to sound sad or annoyed.
Do not say another guy is "hot" or don't drag on about someone. He might think you like them and not himself.
Don't be too shy around him. if your out in public or something, like a dance, and he seems too shy to ask anybody just go up and ask him to dance. just to be friendly...
If you're going to ask him out, don't have someone else do it for you. That makes him feel that you don't won't to be around him. So if he has a phone ask him for his number. Asking a guy out on the phone is easeir than in person and not as embarrising if he says no.
If you do this along with your own stuff he will love you.
If he likes make-up, then wear it, but don't go overboard. If he doesn't like it, then wear little to none. Don't put to much on though.
Be yourself, don't try to be anyone else. You don't want to start a relationship with lies.
Never ever come on too strong when you are in the early stages of friendship, because he is still getting to know you. Don't be always trying to get his attention, but if he tries to catch yours that's fine.
Seen him looking at you? Next time, instead of looking away and blushing, give him a smile and make eye contact!
Exercise to keep toned. A lot of guys like athletic girls, so just get involved in a sport at some point, or mention a sport you do outside of school when you're around him.
Always brush your teeth if your going to meet him or be around him and take mints or chew gum just in case.
If he wants to come round to your house, don't forget to make sure your room is tidy and hide anything you don't want him to see.
If you know he is going to ask you out, be calm and make and sure you have brushed your hair. If you have acne, wear some cover-up over it. Smile at him in the halls, because he is probably just as nervous as you, and you are in a way taking the first step for him, letting him know that you like him.
Be a little of a klutz if you're near him. Do something simple like drop your pencil or trip. That would make you look cute, and if you're lucky, he might help you by picking it up for you!
Before a date, eat a healthy snack. It will boost your self confidence and your stomach will not be growling if you do something that does not involve food.
Learn from your past mistakes, if you made a mistake with one guy don't do the same one with this guy.
If you do not like the way you look exercise a little. This will not only help you feel better but look better too.
If you're talking to just him, whisper so that he will be forced to lean into you.
Play with your hair or necklaces when talking to him, it looks cute.
Try to trip over or drop your books so he can help you. If he walks by you without even glancing at you, this is a sign of lack of interest. If he doesn't bend down to help but says sorry and maybe a small smile to show he is positive, that means getting to know him better may help a bit more. And if he does smile and say sorry, maybe a smile back may help.
Don't get discouraged and think he doesn't like you... he may end up liking you and if you think he does like you just keep doing what you are doing and don't change yourself
If it doesn't work out, then try and be friends with him
There are plenty of more guys out there, don't worry if he doesn't like you back
Wash your face before you go to bed and in the morning for clear skin. Also, if you have acne, consider talking to your doctor about what kind of products would be best to get rid of it or at least help it become less noticeable.
Boys in middle school are still very immature in social situations with girls and might not talk to you because of this nervousness.
Don't pin your hopes on this one boy. There is always another boy to be with.
Don't follow him everywhere he goes.
Don't be insecure. Be yourself. He will like you for who you are, not what you are trying to be.
If he wants to do something you don't want to do, don't do it.
Don't try to let him to kiss you unless you are both comfortable with it
Small hints like smiling and walking away will make him notice how pretty you are, so try things like that, but don't overdue it.
Be honest with him at all times and don't lead him on, boys hate that.
If you are going to kiss him, it would be smart to wait until you are officially going out with him, and are good friends with him so you know that your first kiss will not be wasted on a jerk!
Remember, most people get extremely angry if you attempt to kiss them or touch them when they like you as just a friend.
Show him your good side of your face. For example, if you have side bangs, that is always the cutest side.
Don't stalk him. Don't yell at him when he talks to a girl friend. He will think you are too clingy and let you go.
Don't talk to your ex when he is around, or he might think you don't like him.
Be calm around him, don't get to happy.
try not to mention that your really busy he might feel you have not time for him
Don't have sex with him. You guys have the rest of your life for that.
Boys at this age are well jacka**** so you will need to be calm about this