Deal With Divorced Parents

Are your parents divorced? Do you ever blame yourself for it? Well here are some suggestions on how to deal with it.

Steps
sometimes these steps will not work but dont be sad stay happy,its the key to your success. (off topic)
 * 1) Don't blame yourself. Ever. It will only lead to pain and grief. And if you roll around in your own pain too long, it could cause depression.
 * 2) dont keep thinking about your parents being divoced,do something that will keep you away from it,like play soccer or "hang" out with friends.
 * 3) Remember having divorced parents may be hard and painful at times, you may also get a whole new family. Maybe two new families if your parents remarry.
 * 4) Know that your parents broke up for their own specific reasons. You had nothing to do with it, so it's not your fault. Think of it this way, your parents were not getting along and they were probably feeling as poorly as you.
 * 5) Have a heart-to-heart with your parents if you think their divorce may be the result of something you've done. It mostly, if not always, isn't your fault. They care about you and want you to be happy.
 * 6) Remember these steps and never think that it's your fault.
 * 7) Also enjoy life to the best! ^_^ (not to the extreme...if you want)

Tips

 * If one of your parents is dating a person you don't like, talk to them and share your feelings. They will understand.
 * There are lots of help sources. Including Kids Help Phone(1-800-668-6868). Your siblings are one, family and parents.
 * Talk to people who have divorced parents. That really helps. You can learn new things and teach new things.
 * No matter what happens or what anybody says, remember that it's not your fault.

Warnings

 * Don't get stressed about it. Talk to somebody you trust.
 * Don't let it get you down. Don't lock yourself up in your room and cry for days, but go to one of your parents and have a good conversation. Don't hesitate to ask your parents why they broke up.

Related Tips and Steps

 * How to Survive a Divorce
 * How to Handle Divorce Anger
 * How to Rebuild the Relationship with Your Dad After a Remarriage

Sources and Citations
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 * kidshelpphone.com