Be Special

Everyone is special. We are all original and no one can be exactly like us. Even if people may not feel special, they ARE special - because a duplicate of them can't be created. This won't tell you how to be perfect, but it might help you be more confident, and people notice confidence; you will feel more "special" when you are noticed.

Steps

 * 1) Be nice to people. Make them gifts. This may or may not be special to you, but will be pretty special to the receiver. It always shows that you're special when you make them something because that thing has just become special. Act as nice as you can make others feel comfortable while they talk to you.
 * 2) Be yourself, but if you insist on imposing on another, try making little routines that show the true inner you. Doing these small things are something that shows who you really are.
 * 3)  Be sweet. Hug people when they are happy or sad, and help others with their problems.
 * 4)  Make people laugh, love you for who you are and smile!
 * 5)  Realize that everyone is special. We are all original and no one can be exactly like us. Even if people may not feel special, they ARE special - because a duplicate of them can't be created. With this in mind, you can't be the only special person out there but there are some good ways to get positive attention and remind people that you are special to them.
 * 6) Be nice to people. Make them gifts, pick flowers or just remember to smile and listen to them for a minute. This may not be so exciting to you, but it will be pretty special to the receiver. Handmade gifts for birthdays are especially nice if you have a little skill and want to stand out from the crowd.
 * 7) Be yourself. But if you insist on imposing on another, try making little routines that show the true inner you. Doing these small things are something that shows who you really are. Similarly, don't let others push their ideas onto you without at least thinking about them first. You are out to be yourself and be recognized for it, not to be what your mom or your best friend think you should be.
 * 8) Smile! A smile can influence everyone around you and make them remember you. If you have ever had your day brightened by a random stranger smiling at you on the street then you know how powerful a smile can be.
 * 9) Wear modest clothing. This isn't a requirement but for girls and especially younger girls, wearing way-out-there clothing or stuff that shows too much skin might make people remember you, but "special" probably isn't the word they'd use to describe you. Try to stand out through your deeds, not your wardrobe.
 * 10) Help people. Hold doors open, offer to carry heavy packages (but only if you know you can - don't hurt yourself!), push the right button for their floor in the elevator. Little things add up and soon you will be much happier with yourself, and other people will be happy too!
 * 11) Sympathize with others. Even if you think that someone is being too dramatic about a situation, kind words can make them feel better and make you a special person to them because you took the time to listen and reassure them.

Tips

 * Always be cheerful; it warms other's hearts when you make a special effort to be nice to them. Anything that you do that is an effort to do is always special.
 * Everyone is priceless and when you know that, it helps you be you.
 * Compliment people.
 * Smile more! Smiling shows that you're comfortable with yourself.
 * When you are with others, be happy and try to make them happy (but don't let them walk all over you). They will be nice if they are happy!
 * Don't expect results the first day. Becoming a special, unique person who is proud of herself takes time.

Warnings

 * Watch out for grumpy people and people who always complain! They will make you feel bad about things and will keep you from feeling like a really special person.
 * Think before you speak or act. Sometimes you might want to help, but the other person wants to be able to do it themselves. By insisting on doing it for them you might damage their pride or their own sense of special-ness, and hurt your relationship with them.
 * If you offer help and they refuse, back off until they come to you. It will save you some time and trouble, and there are always other people willing to let you help them.

Things You'll Need

 * A nice wardrobe (you can have some fun things in here for evenings and weekends too, but remember: professional-looking outfits can make people think of you as a more mature, important person!)

Related Tips and Steps

 * How to Get That Special Someone to Go With You to the Dance
 * How to Make That Special Girl Like You Back
 * How to Be Comfortable Around That Special Someone
 * How to Be a Sixties Girl
 * How to Have Presence
 * How to Be a Confident Teenage Girl
 * How to Be the Life and Soul of Any Party