Deal With Homophobia

Do you feel uncomfortable seeing two men holding hands? Do you want to run away when two women are intimately cuddling? Does this feeling upset and worry you? Well it needn't any longer, thanks to this article helping you deal with your Homophobia.

Steps

 * 1) Whenever confronted with same-sex couples, stop your trail of homophobic thoughts, by reminding yourselves of these simple things:
 * 2) * They are just like you and only want to be loved and accepted by their friends, and members of society just like you.
 * 3) * Your fear may be based upon outdated views and opinions, based upon ancient religious beliefs. Acceptance of same-sex couples is a sign of the 21st century, and by doing so you become up-to-date and modern in your views.
 * 4) * It is now legal in many countries for homosexual marriage, so ask yourself - if whole governments can accept it, then why can't you?
 * 5) * They feel the same love for each other that you would feel for your partner, ask yourself if it is right to deny them this human right?''
 * 6) Question your own fear, you know it is irrational - and by reading this you have taken the 1st step to overcoming this belief. Ask yourself why you feel this irrational revulsion, and try to stop yourself from feeling it.
 * 7) In rare cases this homophobia is caused by deep self-denial, and fear of your own homosexuality; your own insecurities and worry of acceptance is what is causing this fear. Try to question your sexuality and if you find this may be the reason for your fear, talk to homosexual counseling, there are many numbers you can call at any time - anonymously!
 * 8) The key to overcoming this fear is realising the cause and accepting it. Only you know yourself and the reasons behind your feelings, no matter how much you may dislike, or be scared of them.
 * 9) After taking these steps and accepting your fear, take steps to integrate with homosexual couples and get to know them. You will soon find that they are no different from you, and are nothing to be scared of!
 * 10)  If you are too scared to approach homosexual couples, watching TV shows which are known to be 'camp' can help, such as Glee', 'Dancing on Ice', 'Strictly Come Dancing, etc.. may help you understand their point of view.
 * 11)  In some modern dramas such as Grey's Anatomy the characters in the show may be homosexual and be in a homosexual relationship. Regular exposure to homosexuals can help you to accept and realise your fear and the reasons behind it. You should not be scared of homosexuality, embrace and accept it - then move on!

Tips

 * Don't be afraid of homosexuals, or your own fear, just accept your fear, accept them - and move on.
 * Overcoming your fear will not be easy, and will take perseverance and patience. By reminding yourself of our advice and the steps above you will quickly find yourself accepting homosexuals and their choices in life.

Warnings

 * Insulting homosexuals with your irrational fear, do not approach them until you are confident of your own strength.