Deal With a Boyfriend Who Has ADD or ADHD

Is your hyperactive boyfriend a problem? There is nothing to be worried about if he listens to whatever you say.All it needs is a little patience and love to make things straight. Good luck.

Steps

 * 1)  Spend a lot of time with him: Spending time with him and talking about this issue together will boost his confidence. Cite examples of great personalities who have been diagnosed with ADD and how they have had great lives.  [[Image:Deal With a Boyfriend Who Has ADD or ADHD Step 1.jpg|center|550px]]
 * 2) Help him when participating in groups, by steering him on track with how he can relate to others conversation.  [[Image:Deal With a Boyfriend Who Has ADD or ADHD Step 2.jpg|center|550px]]
 * 3)  Give him all your love: Tell him how much you love him, and care for him. Take him to a private place and shower him with your love. This will give him a feeling of security.  [[Image:Deal With a Boyfriend Who Has ADD or ADHD Step 3.jpg|center|550px]]
 * 4)  Distract him if necessary: If he starts becoming a little sidetracked in one subject, liking yelling or passing unnecessary comments, engage him in some other activities: get him something to eat or drink, or talk about some topics that he loves.  [[Image:Deal With a Boyfriend Who Has ADD or ADHD Step 4.jpg|center|550px]]
 * 5)  Try to change his food habits: Food items like pizzas, burgers, fast foods or food items which are spicy and non-veg must be strictly avoided. These foods cause a lot of agitation in his mind. Instead, offer him more green vegetables, fruit juices, salads, etc.  [[Image:Deal With a Boyfriend Who Has ADD or ADHD Step 5.jpg|center|550px]]
 * 6)  Acceptance: Convince him he can concentrate in his activities.  [[Image:Deal With a Boyfriend Who Has ADD or ADHD Step 6.jpg|center|550px]]

Tips

 * Get him into some physical activities, like sports or going to the gym. These activities drain all his energy.
 * Hold his hands firmly when he becomes a little hyperactive to distract him when he acts like that.
 * Give him some alone time to recover.
 * Take note of whether he takes his prescribed medication properly or not, if he is advised to.

Warnings

 * Do not overpower him with your love and attention. He will not want to feel pitied, or like he is being smothered.
 * Do not pressure him to do something which makes him feel uncomfortable. Give him some time.
 * Do not pressure him about, or scold him for, his behaviour. Remember that he is not doing it consciously. This can make him feel insecure, and in turn, make him more hyperactive.