Give a Spanking Part two

Give a Spanking Part 1

Tips

 * Make sure the punishment fits the crime!
 * Always consider the child's age, size, maturity, and offense when choosing to spank
 * Only use spanking as a last option, when grounding and taking away priveliges didn't work.
 * Always give one warning, and include what the punishment will be should they do it again, so that the child knows that what they are doing is wrong.
 * Never spank too often. If you are constantly having to spank all the time then it probably doesn't work on your child (as every child is different), or they are getting too used to it, which should never happen. A proper spanking should be a very occasional thing, something that happens only a few times a year/once every few months in their growing years.
 * If discipline (not just spanking, but discipline in general) is started early, around about 1 and a 1/2 years of age, you should not need to spank your child past the age of about 7 or 8. If it is needed much past that, it is recommended you try other punishments.
 * For parents who spank bare bottom: Try wetting or oiling the bottom (if you spank bare) before spanking. Many parents say that they received excellent results to this (The slapping sound of hand against bottom is extra defined, making the child feel the spanking more. It makes them feel like you are spanking harder than you actually are, and you do not need to spank as hard)!
 * For parents who spank bare bottom: If you are uncomfortable about completely taking down your childs underwear for want of frontal privacy, try purchasing drop down seat jammies used specifically for spanking only. They contain a drop down seat just over the rear end of the child (should be worn without underwear) giving the child privacy in their front (no frontal nudity) while giving the parent/spanker easy access to the bottom, and if they are only worn for spankings, then it gives the child a more "ritual" feel while wearing them, because they know that wearing these jammies means they are in trouble.
 * For parents who spank over panties or bare bottom: If you are hesitant of baring your childs bottom for a spanking, but also unsure of spanking over clothes for fear of spanking too hard, and do not want to purchase or sew drop down seat jammies, this is another option- (2) Soaking the underwear (which need to be white, no patterns) in warm water for a few minutes before the spanking (adds the slapping sound talked about above) while giving view of the childs bottom and no frontal nudity is needed, or (b) Taking the childs underwear and tucking it in the crack, therefore no frontal nudity is shown, and you have an almost full (about 75%) view of the bare bottom, and parents/spankers can track bottom redness and how hard they are hitting with the impact on the childs skin.

Warnings

 * Never spank a child while angry
 * Never spank a child anywhere other than the buttocks!
 * Never exceed 20 spanks.
 * Never use implements, no matter what the age or size of the child, or the crime they did! (This is illegal in the US, Canada, UK, and most of Europe anyways!) It is too hard to control an implement and can be very dangerous, possibly leaving lasting marks. Do not use implements!
 * Make sure that you are being careful where you are spanking them. It is dangerous to hit the tailbone, and can leave lots of damage.
 * Watch how hard you are hitting. There should be no bruising or marks (other than a red bottom) at all. If the child is complaining that it is hard to sit down the next day or day after that, or your hand is beginning or did hurt during the spanking, then you are/were hitting too hard. The most that should happen is that they have a red bottom up to an hour or two after the spanking. Anything beyond that is starting on abuse.
 * Some children are drama queens: just because they are crying very loud does not mean that you have spanked enough. Get to know your child and how they react to pain before spanking, so you know at what limit you can spank at.
 * Never spank in public, other than a swat or two for warning- there are some people that may find this unacceptable and, though this is unfair, will cry child abuse. Wait till you are in a car or, even better, at home, away from the public to spank. Simply use warnings or quiet swats in public, and make sure to carry out the promised spankings once you are home!

Things You'll Need

 * a clear head
 * self control
 * patience
 * a private place
 * a tall bed or chair to sit on or bend over
 * an open, flexible hand
 * a misbehaving bottom

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