Be Your Own Friend

It can be hard to be your own friend. But some of the time we aren't letting ourselves.

Steps

 * 1)  Figure out first what you are fighting with, write a list about things you don't like about yourself and focus on them
 * 2)  Write out a list of things you DO like about yourself. Everything you can think of, whether it be emotional, spiritual, something physical, anything.
 * 3)  Realize that there are some things about you that you absolutely cannot change, like your personality. But then also realize there are a lot of things you can change.
 * 4)  If you have made some mistakes in the past that you are still blaming yourself for, realize that EVERYONE on planet earth makes mistakes, even the ones that to us seem perfect.
 * 5)  If you have gotten into some bad habits that people do not like about you, then change it. If you have gotten mean, try really hard for 1 month to be as nice as possible, etc.
 * 6) We are always able to break and form new habits.
 * 7)  If there are things about you physically that you are not happy with, you can always change them. If you don't like the way you look, then tell yourself that there are thousands of people out there that will love you for everything you are. Not too fool yourself, but because it is the truth.
 * 8)  There is no such thing as one person that the entire world hated.
 * 9) Realize that you are you. You will always be who you are. Embrace your good points and work on improving your bad ones.
 * 10) Don't be hard on yourself. Be confidant about who you are, and don't envy other peoples looks or being. Yes we all wish we looked like someone else, but don't TRY to be them or act like them.
 * 11) Even if you don't feel completely comfortable acting confident, do it anyways, it will soon become a habit. And people around you will know that you are confident too.

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