Be Respectful of Your Family

We all know that families are there to love you and respect you, but indeed it is difficult at times to love them back and respect them just as they have done to you!

Steps

 * 1)  Help your parents with whatever they need.  Do chores around the house when asked, and if it's a special day for a family member that day (E.g.: birthday), do their part so that they know you care and respect them. If it bothers you that you are doing all of the work, try and talk it out or maybe write a list.
 * 2)  Listen to your parents and follow their rules. The rules may sound strict and unfair, but your parents have probably made those rules to help you or for a good reason. If you feel like they are unfair.Ask them for an appointment to talk about the rules to help you understand them and the reason for them.
 * 3) Try not to argue with your family.  Work your conflicts out with your siblings and count to ten with your parents if you know you are about to have a temper tantrum.
 * 4) Be polite.  Respect also means manners. Being at home doesn't mean you can omit the 'please' and 'thank you'. If your younger siblings don't seem to remember this, try and remind them,so they too will see how important being polite is,and don't talk back. Respecting people doesn't just mean being nice to them. Talking back, rolling your eyes, smacking your lips,all these responses are bad for all relationships, not just family.
 * 5)  If you get punished, accept it and don't make a fuss. You have done something wrong, so you have to take the consequences. Be mature and just get on with it, for example if you are grounded, don't break the rules of your grounding and it will be over and done with sooner than you think.
 * 6) If you have friends come over, make sure they behave politely. Behaving politely is a good part of being respectful, and respecting your parents means making sure your friends do, too.
 * 7)  Be the responsible one around the house. If a sibling won't clean up something, do it. It will show them your the responsible child and you basically deserve more (what you want).
 * 8)  Last but not the least, think of all the things you love about this unique family of yours. Everyone has their own unique traits, respect that! Remind yourselves that manners, love and respect is the key to every healthy relationship.

Tips

 * When something bothers you, talk it out. It helps to vent and work out your problems, not keep it in and not know when your anger will explode. You can also write it down in a diary or a blog when you can't talk it out with somebody.
 * Write down a little list of values and good points of your family members. It could be small so that you can put it in your wallet and take with you wherever you go. When you feel like talking back, take it out and just read it a couple of times.

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