Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis

Your partner has huge problems..always stressing out, always having no time for you...this is how you deal with it.

Steps

 * 1)  During dinner or whenever you two are alone, talk to her/him and ask how is things going. Do not open about the problem yet or he/she will get more stressed out.[[Image:Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis Step 1.jpg|center]]
 * 2)  Then start opening about the problem but don't talk about negatives things start of being positive about it. Then you will see he/she will start opening up to you.[[Image:Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis Step 2.jpg|center]]
 * 3)  Talk about it calmly, no yelling or screaming. If he/she is starts yelling just because of stress, calm her/him down.[[Image:Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis Step 3.jpg|center]]
 * 4) Open up the problems..don't ask to much questions or she/he will get frustrated with you.[[Image:Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis Step 4.jpg|center]]
 * 5)  After the conversation is over, relax her/him. Watch a movie, have a date, just to relax him/her.[[Image:Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis Step 5.jpg|center]]
 * 6)  If the problem comes from work, visit there and just help out with the problem..not like get in the business just make him/her feel better. Do that twice a week, if he/she ask you to stop coming, follow what he/she says just act relax so she will relax. People tend to do what they see other people are doing.[[Image:Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis Step 6.jpg|center]]
 * 7)  After the problem is starting to fade away..take him/her out more. Spend more time together.[[Image:Keep Cool During a Partner's Midlife Crisis Step 7.jpg|center]]

Tips

 * Do something special to them ever now and then..to make them fell better.
 * Stay calm throughout the whole thing.
 * Always act sweet to them. Never give them signs of badness.

Warnings

 * They might not want to open with the problem.
 * Your marriage might get damage.
 * They might be too stressed to take your sweetness.

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