Tips for blending families

Don't introduce the children too soon.

When you do introduce the children, don't force it. Talk to each child individually about their feelings on the situation and the new people they've just met.

For parents who have a civil relationship with their ex, give the ex the option of meeting the new spouse. Be sure to put the marriage first, otherwise it's going to fall apart.

Source: Mary Katherine Arcement, licensed professional counselor and licensed marriage and family counselor in Shreveport