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Stepparents - How to keep your relationship alive

2012-05-20T12:05:08Z

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When you entered into your relationship I'm sure you didn't first fall in love with the children and think 'I must live with these children. I love them! Oh and the dad's not too bad either. I guess I could put up with him'. More likely something else happened.

More likely you fell in love with your partner and the children were your secondary thoughts. You've entered into this family because of him or her, not them.

Is that fair?

In the early stages many stepparents look at the situation with the children as occasional visits and an outing here and there. They're in what I call the 'getting going stage'. It's a sort of fantasy time that many of us go through.

But what happens when that 'high on love' feeling begins to fade?

It doesn't take long for a new stepparent to work things out. It's simple. He's a package deal. The realities of calls from the children's mother, school events and keeping everyone happy during summer holidays soon hits home. And that leaves you with a question.

Who am I in this relationship for?

You're in this relationship because you fell in love. You're in this relationship for your partner. But now there's something new to face. The children are there to stay.

And what does that mean exactly?

It means they're going to be around. It means you might feel pushed out or neglected at times. Weekends, Christmas, Easter, birthdays and those summer breaks, these are the moments you can often find yourself wondering about the complications, the headaches, the bickering between kids, your role, and that biggy: do I really fit in here?

If you haven't been keeping your relationship strong - fresh and alive - you can, during these times, begin to wonder what you're in it for. You might even wonder if you can or want to really stick it out.

But it doesn't need to be that way. Indeed, for lots of stepparents it isn't. Being a stepparent can be very rewarding and enjoyable. If the stepfamily functions well you get time with your partner when they're with their other parent. You get to enjoy your part in the kid's adventures. You get to see these young people grow and develop and become adaptable, flexible, confident and compassionate men and women.

One of the most important ways to prevent yourself from getting to the stage where you're wondering if you can stick it out is to nurture your relationship, keeping it strong and alive.

So here are my top 5 tips for making sure you've got plenty of emotional energy in your relationship to breeze through the tough times.

1. Have a vision. Talk with your partner about your joint vision and dreams for the future. Know where you both want to go and how you'd like life to be.

2. Make plans for the future, whether it be for the next 3 months or 3 years. Have something to look forward to together. A common goal.

3. Give each other compliments spontaneously, especially in front of the children. This shows them how important you are to each other.

4. Book in special time alone together. Make a date to go out or just have a romantic night in. Treat this as a special event and get excited about it.

5. Remind each other regularly about what it is you love about each other. What you appreciate and are grateful for.

Here's a bonus tip!

6. Talk through your worries, and concerns. Don't let things fester. Have lots of open conversations and communicate your needs and listen to his.

You'll be glad you did!

Jo

The Stepfamily Coach

http://www.thestepfamilycoach.com

Parenting Stepchildren - I do not like the word stepmother

2012-05-20T11:53:49Z

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I am living with my partner and we recently received total custody of his 13 year old daughter. She has been with us for 11 months. She refuses to speak to her Mother and/or family. "They have done quite a bit of damage".

(Yes, she is seeing someone) Even though her Mother has not been the best, she is still her Mother. I am looking for a name to call myself and for the child to call me. I do not think it is respectful to the Mother if I am called Step Mom. At times (school papers, etc.)

I am suppose to tell what relation I am to her. I am not married to her Father. What am I? Even if I was married to her Father, I do not want to usurp her Mother. Motherhood is to be respected in my book. Yes, I act as her Mother in every way, yet I am not.

The word Step Mother takes away from Mother.

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Divorce to Remarriage: Your Step by Step Guide to Step-Parenting

2012-05-20T11:28:09Z

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As many of you are preparing to re-marry, you probably have expectations of what life will be like with your new spouse and new family. You're thinking something along the lines of "happily ever after" perhaps? Sorry to burst your bubble but let's take time out for a quick reality check.

People rarely have a clue what a relationship with a [[step-child]] will be like. It's not because we're stupid. It's just that there aren't any guide books for [[step families]]. We just assume it's ok to play by biological family rules. This leads to many false assumptions. Today, I'd like to look at some of the most common and present a more realistic view of what you're likely to experience.

'''1. I get along fine with the children now, so our relationship will only improve once I'm married to their parent.'''

* Children view their relationship with you VERY differently once you are married to their parent. Things are permanent now. Any hopes they may have been holding onto about mom and dad reconciling are dead, and you're a part of that death. This quite obviously can cause serious resentment.

'''2. The kids are only over every other weekend. That shouldn't cause much of a disruption to our home life.'''

* Just because a child is over every other weekend, doesn't mean they can't wreak havoc on your home and life. I receive tons of questions from fledgling [[step-parents]] struggling with what to do to manage what they view as the "disruption" to their lives when the kids come to visit. It's not that they don't like the kids, it's just that their usual schedule gets turned topsy turvy.

'''3. My partner loves me, so naturally the kids will too.'''

* Nowhere does it say that just because a child's parent loves you, that they have to. Many kids have the opinion that they already have 2 parents and they aren't interested in having any more. Your goal should be for a civil, friendly relationship rather than one full of love. If you get love, great! But, don't count on it.

'''4. I'm an adult... How tough can it be to win a kid over?'''

* It can be VERY difficult to "win over" a step-child. The problem is your attitude. It's really a manipulative one. Rather than "win" them over, the focus needs to be on being present in their lives and slowly trying to build a relationship with them.

'''5. I won't have to be the "bad guy" with these kids. My spouse will take care of all the discipline.'''

* While this SHOULD be the way things go, it rarely does. Most of the time single parents are so happy to have another adult in the house, they expect that person to step in and share the responsibility of discipline.

'''6. My new spouse will make sure the kids treat me with respect.'''

* This is another one that SHOULD happen, but unfortunately a lot of parents are still wrestling with a sense of guilt over breaking up the family. The guilt continues as the parent feels that the children are being forced into a new and different family. A lot of times this guilt plays out by parents not requiring their children to treat the new member of the family (that would be you, by the way) with the respect they deserve.

There are a lot of factors that determine what your relationship with your step-child will look like. Today we looked at the most typical of reactions. Want to find out other differences to expect in a remarriage? If so, I'd like to invite you to visit [http://www.remarriagesuccess.com/e-course.htm http://www.RemarriageSuccess.com/e-course.htm] to register for our free 5 day e-course focusing specifically on what the differences are.

You can also visit [http://www.remarriagesuccess.com/ http://www.RemarriageSuccess.com] for additional information and resources on how to prepare as a couple and a family for [[remarriage]]. <br>

= About the Author =

Alyssa is a [[remarriage]] expert. She specializes in working with divorced families who are planning to remarry.

She provides high quality resources and support to these newly emerging step families. In addition to her website, www.RemarriageSuccess.com, Alyssa provides direct service to clients in person or on the phone.

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Marriage

2012-05-20T11:11:54Z

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'''Marriage''' (also called '''matrimony''' or '''wedlock''') is a social union or legal contract between people that creates [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinship kinship]. The definition of marriage varies according to different cultures, but is usually an [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Institution institution] in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged. Such a union is often formalized via a [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding wedding] ceremony. Many cultures limit marriage to two persons of the opposite sex, but some allow forms of [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygamy polygamous marriage], and some recognize [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage same-sex marriage]. In some cultures, marriage is recommended or compulsory before pursuing any sexual activity.

People marry for many reasons, including one or more of the following: legal, social, [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libido libidinal], emotional, economic, spiritual, and religious. These might include arranged marriages, family obligations, the legal establishment of a [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nuclear_family nuclear family] unit, the legal protection of children and public declaration of [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Promise commitment].<sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-0">[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage#cite_note-0 <span>[</span>1<span>]</span>]</sup><sup class="reference" id="cite_ref-1">[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage#cite_note-1 <span>[</span>2<span>]</span>]</sup> The act of marriage usually creates [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Normative normative] or legal obligations between the individuals involved. Some cultures allow the dissolution of marriage through [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce divorce] or [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Annulment annulment].

Marriage can be recognized by a [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/State_%28polity%29 state], an [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Organization organization], a religious authority, a [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tribe tribal group], a local [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Community community] or peers. It is often viewed as a [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contract contract]. Civil marriage is the legal concept of marriage as a governmental institution irrespective of religious affiliation, in accordance with [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_law marriage laws] of the jurisdiction.

Divorce to Remarriage - Are You Stuck or Moving Forward?

2012-05-20T11:05:44Z

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One of the most important steps that divorced parents can take before getting remarried is to let go of the strong emotions from their divorce. These are the emotions that hold us prisoners to our thoughts. They keep us focused on what "was", "what could have been", or "what should have been". There's little room for "what can be."

Moving past these emotions, is, of course, a lot easier said than done. Unfortunately, there's no magic pill that suddenly makes you feel better. It's the "going through" that helps us to grow. This month, I'd like to take a look at three of the most common feelings experienced by divorced parents and discuss why it's important to put those to rest.

'''Sadness'''

Sadness comes from many situations in a divorce. It can be when you realize that the hopes and dreams you had for the future with your spouse have died. For some people this sadness comes while they're still in the marriage and realize it's dying. Sadness occurs during the divorce when everyone is forced to acknowledge the fact that the marriage is ending. After the divorce, it's usually brought on by trying to help the children deal with the changes in their lives as well as grieving the loss of the family you had.

'''What's the problem with being sad?''' Once again, the problem lies in the amount of time and also the intensity. Adults deal with grief most strongly at the point when the incident occurs. We have ups and downs, but usually are on a healing path as time moves forward. If we just continue to fall deeper and deeper into sadness, depression may strike - effecting every area of our lives.

Depression prevents us from being there emotionally for our children. The sadness also puts you at risk for isolating yourself at a time when you may really need supports. Friends may try to encourage you to go out and have fun, but you refuse. This only escalates your feelings of sadness because you are alone.

'''Loneliness'''

Adjusting to being alone after marriage is a hard task. We become used to having another adult in the house even if they weren't especially helpful. There's a comfort level to knowing somebody else is there. That's gone once the spouse moves out during the divorce. You are left alone with the children. Then when the kids are spending time with your ex-spouse, that leaves you ALONE.

'''What's the problem with being lonely?''' Loneliness can be especially dangerous for a newly divorced parent. This is the driving force behind people rushing into a new relationship. It can be uncomfortable to sit at home by yourself on a weekend while the kids are with your ex. It can be hard going every night to an empty bed.

While hard, this is a HUGE predictor in remarriage success or failure. People who rush into a new relationship due to fears of being alone aren't very choosy. They also haven't taken a good look at themselves to see what went wrong in their marriage. Both of those factors combined create an ideal situation for ending up in a relationship with someone very much like your ex-spouse. On the surface they make look like the complete opposite, but deep down, they're probably very similar.

'''Anger'''

This is usually the one that people are willing to talk about. I don't know too many people who've gone through a divorce and smiled about it throughout the whole process. There are countless reasons why anger comes up no matter who initiated the divorce.

After the divorce, anger can continue to infiltrate your life. You may be upset about your ex-spouse's relationship with your children. You may be angry about your changed financial situation. You might also be infuriated with the changes that you've had to deal with in your life as a result of the divorce.

'''What's the problem with being angry?''' The short answer is "nothing." Everyone's entitled to be upset. Divorce is a major, life changing event. We don't usually like too much change at once. The problem is when the level of anger you feel stays the same or intensifies over time.

You know the saying, "Time heals all wounds"? Well, there's a lot of truth to that. If you're not "healing" then you're getting stuck. That anger won't allow you to be the parent you need to be. It also won't allow you to be the partner you need to be in future relationships.

While each of these emotions are very normal and to be expected - it's all up to you and how you handle them in deciding if you're moving toward a place of growth or a place of repeating the past. None of these emotions are comfortable and it can be hard for us to admit that we even experience them. But, trying to ignore them by jumping into a new relationship in hopes of skipping over them just doesn't work. What you'll end up with is another broken heart and possibly another broken marriage.

A great way to know if you've let go of the anger is the Special Report: "I'm Just So Mad! Dealing with the Anger of Divorce." To learn more about it, please visit, [http://www.remarriagesuccess.com/somad.htm http://www.RemarriageSuccess.com/somad.htm]

Helping divorced parents prepare for the remarriage & step family of their dreams is our goal at [http://www.remarriagesuccess.com/ http://www.RemarriageSuccess.com] Come visit us to learn more about all of the great information we have to offer you as you head into your remarriage.

All of this courtesy of Alyssa Johnson at Remarriage Success.

=== About the Author ===

Alyssa is a remarriage expert. She specializes in working with divorced families who are planning to remarry.

She provides high quality resources and support to these newly emerging step families. In addition to her website, www.RemarriageSuccess.com, Alyssa provides direct service to clients in person or on the phone.

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It's hard to know where a step-parent should draw the lines

2012-05-20T10:40:49Z

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Last week, after it was revealed that the Australian cricketer Shane Warne's children refer to his fiancée [http://www.elizabethhurley.com/ Elizabeth Hurley] as "Mummy Two", their birth mother Simone Callahan broke her silence, calling it "disrespectful": "She is not their mum - and the kids know exactly what the situation is."

Eighteen months into Hurley's engagement to Warne, she and Callahan met for the first time recently when all three attended Warne's son's school sports day in [http://maps.google.com/maps?ll=-37.8136111111,144.963055556&spn=0.1,0.1&q=-37.8136111111,144.963055556%20%28Melbourne%29&t=h Melbourne]. Following Callahan's comments last week, Hurley was photographed collecting Warne's youngest daughter, Summer, at the school gates. She was then pictured with her again, at a football match.

I'm surprised it took the former Mrs Warne so long to voice her exception. The thought of my children holding another woman's hand, sitting on her lap, with hugs all round, makes me feel physically sick.

[http://www.telegraph.co.uk/family/9276744/Whos-the-mummy-Ask-Liz-Hurley....html Click here to read the full story]
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The Youngest Children Are the Ones Most Affected By Divorce

2012-05-19T20:56:28Z

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Too often parents discount the depth of the feelings their children have when they get a divorce. A serious misconception is that older children feel the split much harder than little ones do. You've heard people saying, "Well, he's only four and doesn't know what's going on." That's been a common theory up until now when researchers at Georgetown University discovered that actually the opposite is true. Smaller children under the age of 5 are the ones who suffer the most negative effects of their parents' divorces.

It's probably needless to say that a child's world is torn apart by the difficulties their parents are going through. These kids have been raised to believe that their environment is stable and the way it's supposed to be, no matter what it's actually like. During their youngest years, children learn to develop attachments. Early on they conclude that they are loved by their parents, that they live in a safe environment, and that they're free to explore the world they live in. In short, they have it all figured out for themselves. That is, until something changes to make them doubt that anything is really the way they thought.

You may see the confusion they are feeling in their behavior. Unable to fully discuss the way they are feeling, they often act inappropriately. Parents who are stressed out themselves are more prone to get angry with the misbehavior, and that parental reaction reinforces the child's sense of unease. It can be a vicious circle unless parents know some simple coping strategies and make the way easier for their little ones.

Make sure to keep your connections with your child strong. Be as honest and straightforward as you can be, and if you aren't sure where the future is going to take you, tell them so. Just let them know that no matter what happens, you'll be there for them. Don't go so far as to make promises, though, which you may not be able to keep. Keep your fights and discussions with your spouse between just the two of you. Don't make your home environment any more chaotic than it already is. You also need to make sure the child knows that your marital difficulties are in no way because of them.

Divorce is difficult for everyone involved and often brings about unwelcome changes in lifestyle. Try to keep everything as constant as possible for your children and maintain a soothing demeanor when dealing with them. Even the smallest child can get very upset when they sense that something isn't right. <br>

=== About the Author ===

Find out how to know when your marriage is over at: [http://www.top20questions.com free marriage advice] or here: [http://www.top20questions.com Save My Marriage].

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2012-05-19T20:51:38Z

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Steps to Deal with Bullying

2012-05-19T20:51:07Z

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By Rosemary Lichtman, Ph.D. and Phyllis Goldberg, Ph.D.

Remember what it was like to be in school, afraid of the big bully in the neighborhood? The documentary Bully reignited the national dialogue about this challenge for kids, following several students and their families over the course of one school year.

Bullying is pervasive in our society today - research indicates that one in three children have been involved in an incident, either as perpetrator or victim. It's been estimated that 13 million children in the U.S. are bullied each year, with 3 million being absent from school each month because they feel threatened there. Children with special needs are especially vulnerable - they're 60% more likely to be attacked by bullies.

Here are some actions you can take as a parent if you fear your child is being bullied:

'''Prepare yourself.''' Slow down and be ready to have a private conversation when you don't have any major distractions. Sometimes a familiar setting can include a minor diversion to help your child become more comfortable sharing - in your car, when you're playing catch, working on a puzzle, completing a chore together.

'''Talk with your child.''' Create an atmosphere of trust by using your active listening skills. When you're speaking, ask open-ended questions in a non-judgmental, non-threatening way. Don't interrupt his responses. Try to keep your emotions in check and be clear in the message you are conveying. Be available and let your child know that her feelings and thoughts are important to you. Encouraging honest conversations with your children teaches them to trust themselves in expressing their thoughts and feelings to others.

'''Pay attention to non-verbal communication.''' It may be difficult for your youngster to open up and verbalize facts and feelings so notice her body language. And express your own support with physical closeness and comforting hugs as well as your words. You may not learn all the facts at one time so be patient and come back to the issues later.

'''Be positive.''' Let your child know that you are on his side, it's not his fault and he doesn't deserve to be bullied. Role model your own constructive behavior and good communication skills at home. Arrange for her to spend time with friends in a safe environment outside of school so that she can develop personal strengths. Discourage him from bullying others in response.

'''Contact your child's school.''' Once you have a clear understanding of what's been going on, write it down so that you have a straightforward narrative about the problem. Identify the appropriate people in your child's school to contact and communicate your concerns to them. If your school has an anti-bullying policy in place, follow the procedures outlined there. The administrators have a responsibility to eliminate harassment, protect your child from harm and create a positive environment for learning.

Parents, family, friends, children and educators can work together to create a caring community for all kids. Parents help promote compassion and "upstander" - rather than bystander - behavior by respecting diversity and role modeling empathy toward others. Nurture positive relationships and broaden your circle to include more of the rich cultural tapestry of your community. Help your children find healthy, non-abusive ways to resolve conflict and don't tolerate behavior that is harmful to another. Encourage others to get involved and prevent further persecutions by being supportive of the intimidated kids, empowering youth to stand up to bullying.

© 2012, Her Mentor Center

=== About the Author ===

Rosemary Lichtman, Ph.D. & Phyllis Goldberg, Ph.D. are family relationship experts with a 4-step model for change. If you're coping with acting-out teenagers, aging parents, boomerang kids or difficult daughters-in-law, we have solutions. Visit [http://www.HerMentorCenter.com http://www.HerMentorCenter.com] to subscribe to Stepping Stones, a free ezine and [http://www.NourishingRelationships.blogspot.com http://www.NourishingRelationships.blogspot.com] to receive practical tips and our free e-book, "Courage and Lessons Learned."

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Accepting Step-Parents Into Your Relationship With Your Child

2012-05-19T20:49:24Z

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Just celebrating Mother's Day these days can be a challenge with the large number of blended families that include parents, step-parents, and other adults. Who has a right to see the children of the original union, who should gifts be given to, and how can you celebrate when animosity still colors your relationship with the other parties? Children are often confused by the conflicting information that fills their world, and they need guidance in understanding how to deal with these other people who have come into their lives. What can you do to help them?

Start by accepting their feelings, no matter what they are. You may experience a bit of jealousy about the new person in your ex's life, and that's only normal, but now is not the time to let it show and speak spitefully about him or her. Your child should be allowed to make decisions on his or her own. If they like the step-parent and enjoy spending time with them, they should be allowed to, no matter how much you'd like to block the relationship. Your child will have to deal with both sides of his or her family for a lifetime, and it's better to encourage a healthy relationship from the onset. Making rude remarks about the new parent-figure in their life may make you feel better, but it will ultimately hurt the child.

Never try to compete with your new counterpart. You are your child's mother or father, no matter who comes into their life. Both of you trying to outdo the other to gain the child's affection is going to end up with a very spoiled child. Never try to be who you aren't. For example, if your ex's new love has the money to buy the child expensive gifts, don't overspend your budget in an attempt to do the same. Spend time with the child. Do special activities together. Let them know how much you love them. Your child will love you even without the shiny gifts.

Let your child know that they have your permission to establish their own relationship with their new step-parent. Sometimes children hesitate to do so because they fear it will either anger or hurt you. Let them know that their feelings are valid and acceptable, because, in the end, they are going to be the winners in this situation.

You need to realize that it's going to take time for everyone involved to adjust to the new relationships, and never try to push it. Keep an open mind and a positive attitude, and eventually everything will turn out for the best.

=== About the Author ===

Find out how to know when your marriage is over at: [http://www.top20questions.com free marriage advice] or here: [http://www.top20questions.com Save My Marriage].

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How to take Advantage of the Summer Vacation

2012-05-19T08:53:05Z

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Blending you blended family during summer vacations can be a great way for everyone in your blended family to bond.

Finding the right activities for you and your blended family is something that you should take advantage of specially during summer vacations. Today, we will list down some tips on how you can take advantage of the summer vacation in blending your blended family.
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